W is for Wanting: How to Go From Wanting to Want Sex, to Wanting Sex

W is for Wanting: How to Go From Wanting to Want Sex, to Wanting Sex

The number of times I have heard the phrase “I want to want sex but I don’t” has been too many to count. This is what often has many women come into my office asking for help. Their partner wants more sex and this puts them into a feeling of wide-eyed pressure and thoughts of “uhhhhh well I don’t want sex” and they feel stuck. This then creates a negative feedback loop which…

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M is for Myths: Five Common Myths That Harm Your Relationship

M is for Myths: Five Common Myths That Harm Your Relationship

As a therapist I see numerous relationships that are impacted negatively by the inaccurate myths that are thrown at us from the media, Facebook, porn, romance books, religion, trying-to-be-helpful parents or friends.

With the numerous inaccurate and negative messages out there that create harmful myths I want to help you re-examine what is good and what isn’t when it comes to sustainable relationships. Here are five of those myths…

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