The Well Fucked Wife™ Blog
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J is for Just One Thing: How to Focus On Just One Thing to Create Big Relationship Results
Relationships take work but that doesn’t mean you have to be drowning in doing a ton of things. That would be a recipe for burnout and disaster. Instead you want to focus on one thing at a time and keep it small and simple. This allows for consistency, which is a key piece to …
I is for Intentional Intimacy: How Depending on Spontaneity Will Kill Your Relationship
Leaning on spontaneous sex to run a satisfying sex life is a trap that many of us fall into because we aren’t given any help on how to do things differently. And don’t even get me started on …
H is for Helping your Partner Love You: Two Secrets for Relationship Success
I hate to be the one to break the news to you but try as you may you don’t have superpowers. I know! It’s a total bummer to know you won’t ever have any awesome mind-reading powers like Professor Charles Xavier of the X-Men mutants.
Not only can you not read your partner’s mind but…
G is for Groundedness: Using Intentional Breathing and Focus for Relationship Happiness
Two key components for growing and sustaining a happy long-term relationship involves intentionality about being grounded within as well as focusing on the good of the relationship.
Step One: Focus on Being Grounded Within
When sustaining long-term relationships you have to take ownership around managing your own emotions and stress. Coming from a grounded place within yourself is key to…
F is for Five Love Languages: Building Emotional Intimacy in Your Relationship
How exactly do we give love and how do we receive love? And importantly, what does it have to do with sex and intimacy?
Sexual intimacy is a key piece that adds the yummy flavor to a relationship. It’s the bread and the butter but we often forget one very important ingredient to help with sexual intimacy, and that is emotional intimacy. It is the essential piece that is vital to ...
E is for Expectations: How to Minimize the Pressures of Sexual Performance
Expectations are something that constantly enters my office as a therapist. When helping my clients with sexual and relationship concerns, expectation always rears its ugly head. One of the big expectations that many of us feel when it comes to sex is that we need to perform. It’s as if during sex we...
D is for Desire: The Brain’s Role in Building Desire
Where desire is concerned, the brain is your target. Essentially, the more your brain is open to the idea of sex, the more desire can build. Alternatively, the more our brain is blocked, the less potential there is for sexual intimacy. What contributes to a brain being turned on or off to sex is
C is for Clitoris: The Internal Structures and Pleasure
The clitoris is an amazing part of a woman’s body and a very important aspect of many women’s sexual satisfaction. The pleasure-potential of the clitoris is astounding given that it is made up of nearly 8 thousand nerve-endings, which is double the number in the penis!¹ And don’t think the clitoris is only limited to the small pencil eraser-sized glans you can see poking out under its hood, there is a whole lot more than the eyes can see.